In a woman's life, from adolescence on, the first appointments are a constant, often accompanied by the search of that "forever" is a hope, a hope, a dream. The types of first dates are the most varied, q
uelli organized by friends, who are the natural result of a virtual knowledge, those who, sometimes in advance, you already know that will affect only the sexual sphere, those after which it is clear that there will be never any close encounter of some kind, the ones that come quickly to sex but it was better not find out that the agreement is so terrible as to exclude sex appeal without a future together ... and those that occur accidentally, as a joke or a twist of fate, as in my case and Nicolas. Then there are the first events that have unexpected twists. The other day, at lunch, while the three sisters who have made a deal they were trying a new self-service haute cuisine, I could not believe the story of Estelle: a few nights before, at a party at the home of a friend of his antiques, among a crowd of invited guests rather special, businessmen all ages, young man bored with dog, dressed in rich antiquated youth who drink only water and gigolo, she met Jacques, a 32 year-old sculptor, very, very French with a southern accent changed from a pitch that was snob eat your words. Shy and skittish, it was not clear if it was bored or if you simply want to hide behind a veil of mystery. After closer to each other, and Estelle Jacques no longer have stopped talking kidnapped in an alchemy that was becoming more intense. Putting aside a misleading first impression, Jacques was very well read, interesting, stylish, versatile, sharp e. .. never boring. In short, absolutely perfect. After a series of kisses and great promise, the mutual attraction led to the most natural of epilogues to bed but ... total disappointment. Estelle was totally unprepared because the stunning images. And, perhaps, was precisely the problem: he had too great expectations. It is not only a man who was trying to tear off the towels.
returning home to think about the sexual expectations: in a world where perfection does not exist and where life may hold sometimes of dirty tricks like the vegetarian restaurant that made us feel Angelique last night and that turned out to be absolutely crap , an expectation too high will not be misleading the Trojan Horse?
Meanwhile, the same evening, across the world, including Thomas, in Milan, defied the odds. Armed mouse had found the night before, among Internet-dependent, type a profile and photo is absolutely captivating. Ready to debunk, the allegations of sexologists, under which, due to performance anxiety, only 33% of men in the virtual meeting leads to something more, as opposed to women that 80% of the time trying to transform fantasy into reality, converting the virtual sex real sex, Thomas was prepared for another kind of first date that I, personally, I never had the courage to try: one in the dark. The philosophy of life of Angelique requires that before these appointments, it has always been inclined to imagine that the guy who goes to meet both fabulous. But this was not the case. Or rather, Thomas found himself without a reason, to perform oral sex with a guy who, as he quietly accepted by phone, was not in any way his type. This, however, seems anything but surprising. Speaking with Angelique, in fact, I was made aware of the fact that, just as we do not always attracted to men is undoubtedly beautiful, very often, the best sex you do with people who do not like. It feels, by chance, more free to express themselves? There are fewer inhibitions? Or does it feel paradoxically more themselves with a stranger?
little while ago, I was taking a shower enjoying the hot water to wet my skin and I reflected that perhaps it is true that the obvious things are born, for obvious reasons, sometimes it is better to take life as it is without trying to change the course of things. Estelle may be right with his belief that if sex is not very good is useless to say. But, sometimes, just a bit 'of improvisation.
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