Reviewing an ex is never easy, no city: sometimes awakens old memories, other triggers of curiosity to see the person next hour, and still others when you do not miss the moments shared, you just thank the heavens to have left it
or we ask you how you can be with a man like that. If, in general, the most common reaction is to remain inexplicably affected by it with another, even at best, as there are no facts or circumstances in past suspended for Angelique is much more frequent temptation to go back to bed for once. According to her, in fact, people change over time how to have sex. Whilst it may be that it is not an involution. Personally, however, I always enjoy seeing the physical changes. Draw a diagram of the evolution of its former appearance as a function of time can raise even a bad day. A few nights ago, in fact, after he returned disappointed that he no longer found that the size of jeans I continued to see a showcase of the center but, due to lack of time, I was not able to buy, I've seen online after several months on MSN my former Italian. From ' avatar not even seem him: "But you're in the picture?" I asked. "Of course. Do not even remember how I did? ", The answer is a bit 'annoyed. "Well, you've changed." "In the best hope." "I'm not so sure." By a strange coincidence, a few hours later, while the three sisters who have made a pact had dinner at my house, the argument has shifted again to the question when former Angelique said, surprise, what she had told the first two mornings, to breakfast, Roland, a 34 year old engineer with whom, some years ago, had a ratio of nearly eight months, a gentleman elegantly friendly buoyant personality with two green eyes that skillfully blend a touch of melancholy and hopeless delicious impertinence: the week before Roland betrayed Catherine, his current girlfriend with whom living for two years. Practically, the first serious history after the split with Angelique and some adventure unimportant. What's worse is that she did with her best friend Catherine who, he said, would seduced and conquered. But if at the time, you can only think that the most uncomfortable situations are the most intriguing, is never too good terms with the guilt that rises the next day and with the demand that comes with it: what to do now?
Left alone, enjoying one of the few remaining Ladurée's macarons ( Petales de rose), I on the contrary, I could not help asking myself the question: because the image people have of a former corresponds to reality? When you live a relationship, the perspective through which we build the image of partner can not be distorted by the natural lack of objectivity, but when you leave, you really learn to know an ex?
Unlike Estelle, the episode recounted by Angelique I was not blown away in spite of my reading be less disenchanted of his who, that morning, calmly, asked Roland if at least had fun. But, beyond the fact that the allure of the forbidden, especially in a sexual dimension, can reach levels scarcely imaginable to other areas, I can not believe that what motivates a man to betray his partner with his best friend can be simplistically summarized by the word transgression. Probably what is more difficult to occur in couples today is being able to play cards all discoveries, the latest and offend another profound truth to which we can reach, at the risk and in terms of vulnerability. Realizing, that is, that feeling which corresponds to the feeling of being in close contact with each other without an invisible but very real and palpable, as is often found to mediate. So, what should be a mechanism autodifensivo more than legitimate to take shelter from being easily attacked, it becomes a prison that makes you forget you have a desperate need for love. Turning his life to defend itself always, you can not help but make up for that lack with all the forms that arise from the superstructure compensatory character-based games of power, seduction and sexual commodification of others, which actually becomes an object, an enhancement of personal vanity. While I waited
Nicolas by drinking a Starbucks coffee, Angelique melted my doubts: no more binds us to the former as this that when you are together separates us from them.
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